Saturday, February 23, 2019

The Story Behind The Story - Part Two

Whether some one is a farmer  or barber, long haul trucker or a doctor, we all struggle through life’s  challenges and changes. How do some of us learn to rise up and thrive while others only exist?  How did someone like me who worked as a pet groomer since the age of eleven, become the author of six books, to date?   

As I publish  my newest blog series, “The Story Behind  The Story,” it is my hope that we  all might connect on some level.

Enjoy my musings and “The Story Behind The Story.” and  in the process, I hope you gain understanding and encouragement for your own journey.




The Story Behind The Story
"Going Home With A Cat And A Ghost"






When I finished writing and publishing my first book, COAST TO COAST WITH A CAT AND A GHOST,  a memoir, I held the book in my hands.  My fingers feathered over its glossy cover and thumbed through the pages, touching the words on the pages … so many of them… and I cried. The tears came from disbelief, humility, and  a deep satisfaction and empowerment. How did this happen? When I gathered my senses. I knew one thing. I was hooked on writing. I had found the answer to that question I had been asking all my life, ‘Is this all there is?’

As I held the book in my hand, it became a crystal ball, pulsing, glowing and alluring. The orb held my voice, a part of me, of who I am, an expression of me.  I had things to say.  Words swirled within the crystal, like a pot of   alphabet soup, the letters churning and boiling, threatening to boil over if I did not find a release for them. The compulsion to write was too strong to ignore.



But what to write?  COAST TO CAOST WITH A CAT AND A GHOST was a memoir. I figured anyone could write their own story. I felt I had nothing more to say about my past. I had been estranged from my daughter for over ten years, so I had no stories with happy endings.  I wondered if I could make something up. And so, GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST was born.

You may have realized by now  I am what is called in the writing world as a ‘Pantser,’ someone who writes by the seat of her pants, which aligns will my compulsive personality. My sister, a reserved and controlled individual, once said to me, “You amaze me. You decide to do something that you have never done before and know nothing about, and then you just do it.” That’s me.




I decided to write a mystery-romance. Because COAST TO COAST was selling and receiving rave reviews, I wanted to retain the RVing theme and keep the main character, Judy Howard, but make her fictional.  And of course, the cat, Sportster would continue to add his antics and the stuffed doll  known as Cowboy Jack would  not let up haunting  my protagonist.



 Wala!  I would have a series!  And what better universal issue to address? My story would bring to the forefront the question many of us have pondered --  What if you had a second chance to reunite with your first love, your high school sweetheart? 

Writers write what they know, not that I ever reunited with my first love. But we infuse the story with feelings we have experienced. Just change up the real people, places and outcomes  with fictional characters, imagined, tangled up  situations and  a happy, Camelot ending.
As I wrote GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST, I imagined my first love and created the character, Brad. I offered my fictional character, Judy, a second ,chance but only if she found the courage to jump  through the mysterious  entanglements of her fictional life.

Writing fiction became magical and rewarding, I could escape into a fantasy world of my own making and play with my own desires. The real-life boyfriend? I had no idea where he was or what had become of him, but the  boy who had lived in my mind all these years now  came alive on paper. What fun!

I fell in love all over again –with Brad. I couldn’t let him go.  As my writing progressed,  Brad lived on in books three and four. There is a saying. “If an author loves you, you will live forever.”
GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST became a hit like the first book. My confidence soared.  I was on my way. I was a real author.  I believed this newly discovered gift came with a responsibility. My talent was   not only  to  be used for  entertainment but also for a higher good – to change the world, to make it a better place.  Authors can change things.  The written word can be as powerful as a bullet and as life changing as love.

GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST had been  a fun fantasy and a romantic and exciting  mystery to write. But I resolved to respect the gift I had discovered and  tackle the responsibility  that goes with writing and attempt to make the world better.  My next book MASADA’S MARINE  would  do just  that. 

Stay tuned for the Story Behind The Story of MASADA'S MARINE.







GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST


A novel about life’s complexities for Judy Howard, a recently widowed woman who travels in her Winnebago motorhome from California to Illinois to attend her 40th high school reunion by the invitation of her first love, Brad.   She makes the trip accompanied by her cat, Sportster, and a life-sized polyester doll, riding shotgun whom she calls Cowboy Jack.


She returns to her home town after fleeing from family and Brad   forty years ago to escape the shame and horror of an illegal abortion as the result of being drugged and date raped at the age of sixteen.


She had married and made a life for herself for the last forty years but was always haunted by nightmares of the rape, by dreamy memories of her Brad and by constant regrets, and questions of “What if..?”


The opportunity to confront her lifelong question of “What if..?” arises when her husband dies and Brad invites her to their 40th high school reunion. Gathering up her shaky courage, Judy heads home to face her past…and who knows? – Her future?


The odyssey is not only a discovery of Route 66,  but also a deep examination of her feelings and about the woman she has become since she snuggled in the backseat of Brad’s 57 Chevy.


Brad has lived the last four decades married only to the police force, obsessed with investigating and capturing the biggest drug dealer in the Midwest called Pit Bull. Brad, too, has lived his life with regrets and guilt, always tortured with his own “What ifs?” When he invites Judy to the reunion his mind is made up. He will not waste another moment wondering. He is going to pursue the love of his life and end his doubts.


As Judy progresses toward Springfield and Brad nears closing the biggest case of his career, they are both confronted with the past when Pit Bull threatens to put an end, not only to the mysteries of the past, but Brad and Judy’s future.


Click on the link below to find out more about Judy's books.







Oh, and don’t forget!! Readers’ reviews  keep writers motivated.

USEFUL LINKS 

Other books by Judy Howard: JUDY’S AMAZON  AUTHOR  PAGE


Click on the link below to find out more about Judy's books.






Safe travels!


                   



























Thursday, January 31, 2019

What will tommorrow bring?



 
What will tomorrow bring?
 Do you fantasize about writing a book?
Do you nurse an outrageous dream
to run your own company some day? 
Yet does it all seem foolish to dream big?
 Even impossible?  


Do you think Arnold Schwarzenegger got up one morning and said I am going to be Governor of California? Of course not. He began at the age of 15 as a body builder. To this day he is known as one of the greatest body builders of all time. But this was only phase one of his life.


 At the age of 37 he continued on, gaining world-wide fame as a Hollywood action film icon known as Conan The Barbarian and The Terminator. It was not until   the age of 46 that he was sworn in as Governor of California.

 He took on many careers and achieved numerous titles from Mr. Olympia, Conan The Barbarian, The Terminator, and the Governator. Add filmmaker, author and philanthropist to the phases of his life and you have to ask, “How did he navigate through the stages in his life?”  Arnold did not plan the life he led.   “Today I will be a world class body builder and then become The Terminator and then the governor of California.”
Arnold was malleable.

Malleable is having the ability to adapt.


Like Arnold’s journey, I never would have guessed that my life as a pet groomer would lead me to becoming a top-ranking author.


Dreams or no dreams, life is always moving, wherever we are today is not where we will be tomorrow, or the next day, or the next year.







Arnold Schwarzenegger’s achievements did not spring from a higher education, prestige, or riches.   The diploma for his achievements was borne from his own humble beliefs  and  simple values. These ideas and perspectives are not only free but are available to each of us. Try them out.

1.     Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths.  When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.            Never give up. Finish it.


.     
   

    
    2.What is the point of being on this earth if you are going to be like everyone else? If you are trying to be like everyone else, you are not living to your full potential.                                                
                 
                 Break the barriers, Ignore the limits.






3.     You must give 100% and NEVER stop believing in your dream. 
     Commit.







     4.     For Arnold everything is about reps and mileage.  It is the same for your dream. You must be willing to do the hard work, to learn and to practice. Find the time.





     5.     Positive thinking is contagious. You become what you think about most of the time and you are greatly affected by the five people you spend the most time with
            Run with the big dogs.







Today is a day like no other.
 GRAB IT, USE IT and FINISH IT. Get ready for tomorrow.  







ABOUT THE AUTHOR
The death of Judy Howard’s husband gave the author a wake up call. Life is short. Howard sold her pet grooming business, which she had operated since the age of eleven and engaged full throttle into her new passions of writing and traveling.
Judy Howard’s writing career expands across many genres, including memoir, romantic mystery, reality fiction, travel and young adult, and now with THE GRIEVING GIFT, an autobiographical novel.
In all of Howard’s books the theme is always the same - overcoming life’s difficulties.
Judy lives full-time in her Winnebago motorhome with her cat, Sportster,   traveling across the country as a motivational speaker and offering writing seminars.
When Judy and Sportster are not traveling, they spend their time in Sun City, California.






THE GRIEVING GIFT

Janice’s older sister, Margaret, wanted to believe that the L.A. doctors at Cedars Sinai Medical Center held a magical deck of cards, but after eight years of treatment they dealt their final card. The Hospice card. No miracles for Margaret. Janice reassures her big sister she will be there, holding her hand every step of the way.

On a death watch, you get to know things about a person you wish you didn’t. It is like a roller coaster ride. And like most rides, it brings us back to the place we began, reminding us of who we were and who we have become.

The twists and turns of Janice’s emotional journey transports her back through the repercussions of her teen pregnancy and into the present estrangement from her daughter, whom she has not heard from for the last sixteen years.

Coming to terms with the grief of losing her sweet Margaret, and dealing with her fear of a lonely future is too much for Janice to imagine. When Margaret’s soul goes to rest in L.A. heaven, how will Janice face the emptiness? Will there be such a thing as a Grieving Gift?

Click on the link below to find out more about Judy's books.





Oh, and don’t forget!! Readers’ reviews  keep writers motivated.

USEFUL LINKS 

Other books by Judy Howard: JUDY’S AMAZON  AUTHOR  PAGE


Click on the link below to find out more about Judy's books.






Safe travels!