Friday, December 26, 2014

2015: The Year of the Veterans


Today is the day. I Create tomorrow’s memories   and live yesterday’s lessons.
 

The end of a year means a blank calendar ahead.  Today I consider new beginnings. I’ll welcome my new year with excitement and adventure. Although the IEDs of fear and worry line the roadside of my journey, I am not one to let them stop me. I will trust this year’s journey will be an honorable one, as was last year’s. I trust  the memories I bring with me into the new year, as well as  the lessons learned from yesterday,  will be of benefit to those  I meet along the way,  who are alone with theirs.

The most valuable gift I have to give is my experience, wrapped in strength, and hope. Even in the depths of despair, when there is nothing else, we all have our experiences. Through my writing I hope to pay forward, the compassion, empathy and love I’ve received during my journey through life.

 Because of my charmed life of freedom, made possible by the efforts of those who have fought to defend it,  I want 2015 to be The Year of the Veterans. We are needlessly losing 22 our men and women per day to suicide.
 
 

 


No man is an island, entire of itself;
Every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if the promontory were,
As well as if the manor of thy friends, or of thine own were;
Any man’s death diminishes me,
Because I am involved in mankind;
And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls;
It tolls for thee.           
 John Donne
When I wrote MASADA’S MARINE last year, I spent hours of research, and now, I can no longer feign ignorance to this country’s embarrassing issue of ignoring  this invisible disease. I would like you, too, to join me in my crusade. In order to introduce  you and your friends to my cause, I am recommending a reading list.
Of course, my book, MASADA'S MARINE is top of my list because it illustrates the dynamics of PTSD and how service dogs are combating this invisible disease.
Masada and her Marine were born two decades and two thousand miles apart, and both aspired to do be the best that they could be. But first, they had to meet.
Masada began her journey in Illinois as a bumbling golden retriever puppy and emerged twenty months later as a proud, confident American Service Dog, ready and able to protect and preserve the life of Iraq veteran, Alex March, USMC.
Alex’s journey began in California as an ambitious boy who only dreamed of protecting and preserving life for the Corps, his country and his family. Twenty years later, he emerged as one of “a few good men,” and served with honor, courage and commitment …until he came home….
“An unseen attacker, camouflaged in the crowd, cooled its heels like a terrorist. It waited to follow Alex and his family home. How could he have known what lurked on the sidelines? Another war, an invisible war, he knew nothing about and had not been trained to fight.”
Follow Iraq veteran, Alex March, USMC and his American Service Dog, Masada, who rescues the wounded warrior, as they become the best they can be.
 
The two books below are only two of many included in my research of Masada’s Marine. I guarantee you will join my campaign after reading these books.
 THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE by David Finkel
The wars of the past decade have been covered by brave and talented reporters, but none has reckoned with the psychology of these wars as intimately as the Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist David Finkel. For The Good Soldiers, his bestselling account from the front lines of Baghdad, Finkel embedded with the men of the 2-16 Infantry Battalion during the infamous “surge,” a grueling fifteen-month tour that changed them all forever. In Finkel’s hands, readers can feel what these young men were experiencing, and his harrowing story instantly became a classic in the literature of modern war.
     In Thank You for Your Service, Finkel has done something even more extraordinary. Once again, he has embedded with some of the men of the 2-16—but this time he has done it at home, here in the States, after their deployments have ended. He is with them in their most intimate, painful, and hopeful moments as they try to recover, and in doing so, he creates an indelible, essential portrait of what life after war is like—not just for these soldiers, but for their wives, widows, children, and friends, and for the professionals who are truly trying, and to a great degree failing, to undo the damage that has been done.
     The story Finkel tells is mesmerizing, impossible to put down. With his unparalleled ability to report a story, he climbs into the hearts and minds of those he writes about. Thank You for Your Service is an act of understanding, and it offers a more complete picture than we have ever had of these two essential questions: When we ask young men and women to go to war, what are we asking of them? And when they return, what are we thanking them for?
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
TAMING THE FIRE WITHIN, by Anne Freund
Anne Freund, Ph.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist who has been practicing since 1989. She graduated from Duke University with a Bachelor's in Psychology and from the University of Florida with a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology. Dr. Freund completed her internship at the VA in Bay Pines, FL. She has been with the Department of Veterans Affairs since 2005. Prior to that she worked with law enforcement and first responders as part of a Critical Incidence Stress Debriefing Team. Dr. Freund began conducting PTSD support groups in 2005, shortly after arriving at the VA. She has had specialized training in PTSD at the National Center for PTSD in Menlo Park, CA and at the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, MD. Dr Freund is a member of the American Psychological Association, American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress, International Society for Traumatic Stress, the European Society for Stress Studies, and the Association of V.A. Psychologist Leaders. Dr. Freund was the keynote speaker at the annual POW/MIA Heroes Dinner sponsored by Rolling Thunder in 2011.
 
 
I am sure after reading these books you will join in the effort to pass this bill: S. 2182 VETERANS SUICIDE BILL
HAPPY NEW YEAR.
 
 

 

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

FREE TRIP ON THANKSGIVING DAY: COAST TO COAST WITH A CAT AND A GHOST

I am thankful for all of my readers who have supported me. In appreciation, I would like you to
 
 Enjoy a day of Reading and Eating!!
 
 
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Thanksgiving Day
NOVEMBER 27TH
 

 

Friday, November 21, 2014

A Southern California, November-Beautiful Day


Writing is hard. What do I do when I can’t write another word? When my eyes glass over and my fingers go numb? When all I can come up with is a passive verb and an abstract adjective? It was a beautiful day. Oh God! A writer’s nightmare! Absolutely.  Cold, dead words clog the flow of creative juices. A brain freeze squeezes across my forehead like a vise. What do I do?

I clock out. Shut down. Save and shut down. Always backup. The screen fades to black. I’m off the grid, the author’s grid. I take in my surroundings. My environment is clouded in a layer of dust. I get out the Pledge. The waste basket needs dumping. Rewrites that have been rewritten. It’s garbage day. Change the cat litter and drag the cans outside to the curb.

It is a beautiful day, Southern California, November- beautiful. I retired six months ago from a day job that, most often, consumed fifty to sixty hours of my week. I dreamed of days swaying in my swing on my secluded patio, reading   and napping.

I’m off the grid. Writers write, but this writer grabbed a stack of books just waiting for a Southern California, November-beautiful day.  I passed the afternoon swinging, reading, and dozing. The cold dead words, melted by the eighty degree sunshine, gave life to the inspirational pages.



A Southern California, November- beautiful day is short. It retires to an afternoon chill and sunset shadows. A long walk in the hills finishes my day off the grid. I am renewed and inspired.
 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Who is December's Artist of the Month?

I am so excited, honored and humbled...oh, did I mention...excited?!

 The Menifee Arts Council has nominated me, Judy Howard, as December's Artist Of The Month.

Although I was nominated on the  merits of my literary talent, I thought I would take this opportunity to share another of my  artistic  passions, painting.
After my husband passed away I became infatuated with Kenny Chesney. I painted this in oil. The three time winner of The  Entertainer of the Year, bore an eerie resemblance to late husband. The similarity in his  eyes and his mouth still  puts my heart a flutter when I watch Kenny perform. Entertainer Of The Year -Artist of The Month? We have so much in common.
 
 

I am always trying something new. Like the different genres I write, when I paint, I have dabbled with  different mediums. This is a pastel  titled, SPRINGS PROMISE.
 
 
I hope you enjoy the paintings. And please, don't forget to share the message in my latest book MASADA'S MARINE, The Story Of A Service Dog and Her Wounded Marine Warrior
   
Every Hour a Veteran Commits Suicide.

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Give VETERANS The Gift of EMPATHY and UNDERSTANDING

Veterans Day.
As I wrote MASADA'S MARINE, I spent many days buried in the stories of our men and women in the military who have  returned  home. During my research,  I gained empathy and understanding of their experiences.

I shared in their joy, relief, and gratitude. I felt the warmth of their smiling faces on the tarmac,  the happy surprises of their loved ones.

On this Veterans Day  these   emotions  will be brought to the forefront  again. This time, my book, MASADA'S MARINE  will  tell the rest of their stories, the ones  these men and women don’t tell  or can’t bring themselves to tell. 

Eighteen months of interviews and research taught me our veterans sacrificed much more than just time away from their family and their country.

This Veterans Day I hope to  give something back to them.

MASADA’S MARINE, The Story of A Service Dog and Her wounded Marine Warrior, gives  the  reader empathy and understanding for our men and women returning home.  It reveals the real sacrifices of our men and women in the military.

This VETERANS DAY  give the  priceless gift of empathy and understanding.
On Monday, November 10th and
VETERANS DAY,  
Tuesday, November 11th
, the digital version of  MASADA’S MARINE will be discounted to $ .99 ! 

 A savings of $ 6.00. 

  Please share this with your friends and family in order to bring awareness, not only about the effects of PTSD on our veterans, but also how service dogs  enhance their lives.

Our men and women are coming home. Please keep them alive on home soil.

 

Every hour a veteran commits suicide.
 
 

Friday, November 7, 2014

Two Days Only

My fourth anniversary as an author is approaching and I want to thank you, my readers who have followed me on this journey.
 For a limited time, beginning Friday at 8 am on November 7th,  you may take advantage of   DEEP DISCOUNTS, as much as 75%, on COAST TO COAST WITH A CAT AND A GHOST , and GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST.   


As an author I struggle to find words to express my gratitude to all of you. I hope you take advantage of this offer.


Also, don’t forget  $ .99 for MASADA'S MARINE,  on Novemeber 10th and VETERANS DAY , November 11th.

 Every hour a veteran commits suicide.
 


 

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

HOW IT ALL BEGAN -PART ONE


This is Part One of a series titled, “How it all began.” 


Statistics prove over 25% of you dream of writing a book.  In the beginning I didn’t include myself in the poll. Writing never occurred to me.  In order for you to understand the life of this writer, I will start this series  by answering some of the questions readers have asked.  To begin with, “Have you always dreamed of becoming an author?

No.  I never dreamed of becoming an author, until the first day in a writing class I attended for the fun of it.  As I put my pen to the paper, I was surprised and a little shaken by the words tumbling out of my head. At that moment   I recognized a burning desire to express myself that had festered within me all my life. I had ignored the yearning because it could never be satisfied, unless I became a preacher on a pulpit or a politician on a podium. Who would listen to me? 

Like a starving, thirsty soul stumbling across an arid land, that simple class of creative writing became an oasis of fulfillment. I soaked up the information offered and sought out to gorge myself with even more. I surfed the internet, delved into books, fiction and non-fiction, and attended conferences as if I were a shark engaged in a feeding frenzy. I wanted, no, I needed to express myself. I had experiences to share, opinions to vent. How best to accomplish the feat than to write a book?

The fun little writing class became like small boat. I paddled along the beach admiring the scenery and absorbing the magic of the moment, unaware I was drifting further out to sea.  One day I looked around and I could no longer see the shoreline.  The water became choppy and I paddled harder.  I felt no panic, but amazement instead, I had come so far, too far to go back.  I had written a complete manuscript.

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My fourth anniversary as an author is approaching and I want to thank you, my readers who have followed me on this journey.

 For a limited time, beginning Friday at 8 am on November 7th,  you may take advantage of   DEEP DISCOUNTS, as much as 75%, on COAST TO COAST WITH A CAT AND A GHOST , and GOING HOME WITH A CAT AND A GHOST.   

As an author you can believe me when I say there are no words to express my gratitude to all of you. I hope you take advantage of this offer.

Purchase  MASADA'S MARINE, for $ .99    on Novemeber 10th and VETERANS DAY , November 11th.

 Every hour a veteran commits suicide.